Ok I konw theres MaxToJME() but that requires a 3ds file, is there anyway to use a .max file?
Short answer: no
If you have 3d max you can convert to different formats (including .3ds) if not I see no way to get
the max-files. Sad but true
the best way to go is the ogre-xml loader and the exporter from www.ogremax.com